Upon entering this great land of sea
& sky, our endeared visitor became part of the host
nation's favourite
power-game... 'Hand it over or be harassed'.
AIRPORT SECURITY 101:
Please
remove
Mangal sutra (Wedding necklace) - OFF
Pola (Betrothal bracelet) - OFF
Mala (prayer beads) - OFF
Rakhi (sacred knotted thread) - OFF???
Now, three of these things may
potentially set off a metal detector,
But ONE item is clearly not like the
others.... because…
It is made entirely of string!
STRING, people!!
A piece of humble, incorruptible string.
One that is RARELY removed once tied to the wrist of a brother/sister/friend as
part of a Hindu ritual that solidifies, indeed sanctifies, the eternal bond
& pledge between them.
Simple threads of humanity
It was a heart-breaking & confronting
moment for a 'guest' in a new land.
The exchange between friend &
customs officer was a terse one – the overly-officious employee (for no
apparent or even logical reason) demanding complete obeisance from the stunned
visitor, unable to defend herself against this affront to long-held personal
beliefs & revered traditions.
And while none of this may seem
particularly provocative to the casual observer, just a pesky annoyance or mild
inconvenience to some... it actually speaks to a growing attitude of disrespect
& hostility towards individual self-expression & basic human integrity.
A microscopic indication of a decline in
decency & general malaise of mean-spiritedness sweeping the nation, its
people, processes, governments & government agencies.
When, I ask, did we stop being caring,
sensitive humans & start becoming unconscionable, arrogant automatons? And
how far will we go to further the divide between people & practices we deem
'different' &/or a threat to national security?
My absence from these palace pages stem from these & other local & international injustices that simply make no sense to me. (Australian Budget 2014 is one case in point).
I'm pained & embarrassed by these flouts to fairness, & fear I'm beginning to resemble, less & less, the hospitable,
happy person I strive to be.
As we retied the Rakhi of sisterhood on
our dear friend, I couldn't help but feel something was inherently lost (in our
otherwise warm Australian welcome). That somehow, the reception was marred by a
bitter ambivalence which has dogged me my whole life – to express or repress.
Not especially an indictment on my
adopted country (for this could have occurred at any number of Airports around
the globe) … but a feeling of despair about the state of the world at large.
The desensitizing of feelings, lapses of
judgement, lack of rational thought & common sense. The need to intimidate,
humiliate & obliterate the divine essence of an individual (for the
purposes of power & conformity)… & the discourtesy shown when we SEVER
a simple red thread, that in its beautiful simplicity, actually BINDS us to our
brethren… indeed, to all humanity.
Bond of friendship & fidelity
fashioned in stone
What a beautiful piece of writing. I agree with you so much the way our world treats some people and especailly at this time. Big thanks.
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Jinny